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If She’s A High Value Woman, You’re Gonna Have To Kill To Be Her Boyfriend

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The thing is this kind of a woman is fully committed to bettering herself on a daily basis, be that in her private life, her career or something else. This is exactly why she won’t be easy to get in any case. She aims high in life and she’s not afraid to wait as long as it takes to get what she thinks she deserves.

See, she’s not a weak creature and to take her as such would be a huge mistake. This woman knows her worth and she knows what she brings to the table. She isn’t looking for someone who’ll mess with her head. She’s looking for a partner with whom she’s gonna build her future but for the better. If you recognize traits of a high-value woman in your lady, this is exactly why you’re gonna have to kill to be her boyfriend.

1. Her standards are really high

… and they shouldn’t be any other way. A woman who constantly works on herself, a woman who has things going on for her in her life, a woman who doesn’t need a man to complete her should, in fact, have her standards high. That’s why you’ll need to step up your game and get your life in order if you even think of having a chance with her.

2. You don’t get her trust until you earn it

If she’s truly a high value woman, you’ll need to make an actual effort to earn her trust. Nobody is saying she’s going to be doubting every word that comes out of your mouth, but she won’t trust everything you say either. See, if you want to earn her trust, you’re gonna have to put your money where your mouth are. In other words, you’re going to have to ensure your words are followed by your actions, that your promises don’t come up empty, or you can say goodbye to all the dreams you had with this woman.

3. Playing games will just push her away

Yes, there are still women out there who love games and who somehow enjoy them, but high value women find it tiring. Blowing hot and cold will only be a sign for her that you’re just an immature man who doesn’t know what he wants and she’ll just ‘cool off’. Once you start playing games of any kind is when she starts slowly walking away from you.

4. You won’t get boyfriend benefits until you’re her boyfriend

And we’re not talking only about sex here. There are some boundaries she won’t be willing to compromise until you two have become official. You see, there are other things you get in a relationship such as emotional support, empathy and someone who’ll be there for you no matter what. She won’t be investing all of herself if you aren’t ready to commit to her. It might sound old-fashioned, but, whether we like to admit it or not, this is the only right way to do relationships.

5. She’s not gonna compromise her life goals to fit your schedule

See, she’s not one of those women who bend over backwards just to get a man in their lives. She has her life already on track and if she needs to compromise any of it just to have some time with you, if she needs to fit your schedule without having you do anything, then she’s just gonna read it as a sign you don’t really want to be with her. And to expect her to walk a thousand miles for someone who wouldn’t lift a finger for her would be just silly.

6. She won’t be afraid to walk away

Once you’ve actually made it to the boyfriend stage, don’t expect that you can relax your game. If you start taking her for granted, if you stop trying once you two enter a relationship, if you stop giving her what she deserves and start neglecting her, regardless of how much it hurts, she won’t be afraid to walk away. She’s the type of woman who gives all of herself when she loves, but she’s also the type of woman who isn’t afraid to walk away when she’s taken for granted in a relationship.

7. You’re gonna have to step up your game

High value women are not easy and this is one rule every man in this world is aware of. If she’s loyal, successful, smart, honest and funny, then she shouldn’t receive anything else in return. She won’t accept being neglected, treated as less, and she will never settle for a mediocre man. If you want to have a good woman next to you, you’re gonna have to step up your game. You’re gonna have to work on yourself to become a better man each day to earn the attention of such a woman.

See, real men don’t play games. They know what they want from their lives and they don’t bring their women down—they help them build themselves up. They’re aware that a woman is always a mirror of a her man and vice versa. High value women will be too much work for boys anyway. And to be able to have a high value woman next to yourself you can’t be a boy—you need to be a real man.